The Power of Being a Spiritual Man
Jacob Nordby believes the most heroic adventure in life is inward. I will never forget when my own private Hero’s Journey began. It was one I had been eyeing, denying and running from my entire life....
View Article5 Ways a Man Can Truly Embrace a Woman’s Sexual Expression
Lasara Firefox Allen wants men to know how to get sexy in a way that makes a woman feel free to be herself.—Start with this: it’s likely that the women you are interested in, and who are interested in...
View Article“Is ‘male gaze’ a biological instinct or a ‘modern’ marketing tool?”
This comment by Lisa on the post Dealing With My Own Male GazeLet’s all be less wrapped up in ourselves for a second…This nonsense about ‘male gaze’ and ‘male biological instinct’ is completely...
View ArticleDo Men Cling To Their Mask of Masculinity?
Graham Phoenix used to regard the life he was leading as a lie. His fear was that people would see him as weak, indecisive and scared. He wonders whether this is typical for men? —According to Tony...
View ArticleHow to Say No and Not Feel Guilty
You’ve been trained to make “yes” your default — but you can change that without drowning in guilt. —Saying NO can be so freaking hard for so many of us, we feel obligated, guilty, and under pressure...
View ArticleWhy We Need to Reject Limiting Ideas of Masculinity
All our lives, both women and men are told they must fit into prescribed gender roles—women as nurturing and men as enterprising, women as givers and men as takers, women as “gentle flowers” and men...
View ArticleDealing With My Own Male Gaze
RSVP for #StopSexism Weekly CallsWhy is it so hard to override the impulse to ogle?—-I was recently at a firedance performance put on by some friends of mine, and I found myself frustrated by a...
View ArticleWho’s Holding the Gun?
— *Trigger Warning: Gun Violence As an outsider watching the repeated horror of mass shootings in the US, I get the sense that no one really knows what to do. There appears to be a fear of stepping on...
View Article‘The Power of Connection To Build Strong Men’
— “In the book How to Raise a Boy, Dr. Reichert paves the way for a constructive reimagining of how a boy becomes a good man. The way to do this, he says, is not to force a way of being onto any boy,...
View ArticleNoticing Beauty Is Not Cheating
— What features of men and women make them attractive in your culture? Your partner fails to recognize that your finding someone beautiful or attractive is a normal behavior and does not indicate that...
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